@Yura I am not going to take any prescription from the doc because I am pretty sure hes not gonna give one. Hes gonna ask me for testo levels after which hes gonna say im fine. What I am interested is in convincing him that PAS exists and then somehow getting him interested in researching about it, not even actual research, even googling and reading documents is fine.
I know this is a very long shot and I am practically 100 percent sure its not gonna work out, but as I said, I don't have any other moves left. I would like to start the stomach acid protocol but my dietary conditions are bad I wont be able to follow a regimen, and even then no PAS sufferer has reported getting better due to that protocol so thats a bummer too.
I really wish it isn't this bad for anybody else but my condition is really bad. Story is :-
In 2010 when I was 15, I took isotretinoin starting from 20 mg and going onto 40 mg for 5 months. The course was supposed to be for 6 months. I stopped at 5 months because :-
1. I had extreme back pain. I wasn't able to lie down. It hurt that much. The pain was in the bones.
2. I couldn't run for even FIVE meters. My knees felt like they would break. The pain again was in the bones.
3. There were other side effects but these are the 2 major ones.
Luckily that time I did not get PAS.
My acne did not go away even after 5 months of iso. I tried other chemicals like tretinoin for 5 years to no avail. Let it be noted that I started applying minoxidil in 2013 and had a major depression episode the same year which went on till 2015 . I also want to clarify that I had absolutely no PAS like symptoms like loss of libido, anhedonia or ED during the depression.I have never smoked a single cigarette or drank even 100 ml alcohol, neither before PAS hit and not even now.
In 2015 when I was 20, I took iso again for the following reasons:-
1. Nothing was working for acne. And the acne was bad, I was getting scarring and my face used to hurt. My nose was ( and still is ) covered with thousands of small blackheads.
2. My derma said that I wouldnt get the same symptoms now since I had grown up now and my bones wont be growing like that time.
3. My friend had done a course of iso from this same derma without any repercussions in 2017. Normally I wouldn't feel this to be a strong point, but he really really bad acne and it just disappeared from him like some magic filter had been applied to his face. Coupled with the fact that the derma told me I that I wouldn't have those side effects now, I took iso again (20 mg only ) in 2015 July.
This time PAS hit me. With all the sides. HARD. It was not gradual. During the course ( I don't remember the date ), I woke up and felt something to be different. Let me quote my feeling from that time, " I feel like a switch has been turned off ". My thumb started clicking. I thought my bones were getting affected again, but I ll endure this for some time, maybe it wont be as bad as that the previous time. Of course I didnt know that time what exactly had happened. Over the next few days, all the side effects became apparent and/or developed. These are the side effects and have had no improvement since 2015 :-
1. Absolutely no libido. Thinking about sex feels unnatural.
2.100% anhedonia. I have not felt any emotions other than terror, guilt and sadness for so long that I have LITERALLY forgotten how happiness, love, nostalgia, music and the other 1000000 combinations of hormones in different proportions which produce emotions feel like.
3.No morning wood since PAS.I had morning wood every single day since 12 or 13.
4.I had ED for 2.5 years. It was so bad that it wouldn't get erect even with manual stimulation, even when it did it would be when I am lying and it would be floppy. I had literally 0 erections while standing or even kneeling or even sitting for 2.5 years. Since the last one or two months things have gotten better that I can have erections (still not 100 % hard) while lying but I haven't tested any other position. This situation most probably improved due to exercising. Prior to PAS, I used to have spontaneous erections and they had to be SO HARD that it hurt the penile base. I used to feel like my penis wanted to take off like a rocket. Going back to spontaneous erections, I used to get erections JUST BY YAWNING, not exaggerating. It was very troublesome that time to be honest.
5.I have lost all sensation in my glans. Its desensitized to the point that I don't really know if I have an erection until I visually confirm it. Prior to PAS it was so sensitive that I had never in my 20 years of life slept on my stomach, because it was too stimulating for the penis to the point of pain. I couldn't keep my penis in the shower because it hurt. After PAS, there's no feeling left in the glans. Related to this, I had similar desensitization on the anus ( I am straight so I have never done anything there but I still remember that there used to be similar pleasurable feeling there like the glans).
6. An example of my prior libido would be that when I was 18 and in my college hostel, I once sleepwalked 100 meters to the urinal and then jerked off there, ALL WHILE SLEEPING! After jerking off I woke up and realized wtf I had just done lol. Prior to PAS, my record for abstaining from releasing was only 4 days, the usual being 1 day. And I really tried to abstain because releasing really worsened my acne and I used to feel cheap.
7. Erections take really long to form, this is related to libido and ED in the sense that since I am not excited, the brain doesnt really send a signal to the penis to get hard. Prior to PAS, I just needed to think about breasts for about 7 seconds to have an erection.
8. This is actual physical proof of PAS damage. I had the fastest growing beard I have ever seen in my life, I used to look an ISIS guy in a single month without shaving, 0 exaggeration and now my beard has slowed down to normal human rate or even slightly slower.
9. Reiterating the anhedonia part just to confirm that I havent had an orgasm for 3 years.
10.No pre-ejaculate ever since PAS hit. None, nada.
11. My thumb clicks, yes this very strange to understand. Imagine the clicking of fingers that we by pressing on them, but the thumb does it on its own without needing to be pressed. It clicks if I just move it. Only the right thumb does this. And yes this started when I was taking isotretinoin, not before.
12. I used to feel SUPER sleepy immediately after ejaculating. I don't even feel sleepy after ejaculating now.
13. I used to have a body scent, not sweat. It was pleasant. This disappeared as soon as PAS hit. The scent used to peak immediately after ejaculating.
14. I used to look good. I could have gotten modelling jobs.I got hit on/ proposed to 8 times before I was 18 (Let me show off now since this is never gonna happen now haha). Now I am almost bald at 23. Both the hair from my hairline and top has disappeared.
15. IDK how it is for others, but when I used to be aroused, I literally could not think of anything else. I would lose track of everything else, I used to think this was the case for everybody else until my friend told me he used to do homework while watching porn and I was dumbfounded that time, thinking of him like a god of patience. After getting PAS I understood what it means to be simply less horny.
16. I haven't had dreams since PAS. I am almost sure that I have not had REM sleep since that time. The dreams that I have now are fleeting, very epheremal ( think of the dreams that happen during light sleep) and occur max twice a week. And sleep now is like half waking, I can constantly hear environmental noises. If I wake up in the middle of sleep, I donot feel as groggy or sleepy as I or any normal person should. I have not had a single lucid dream since PAS. Prior to PAS, lucid dreams happened frequently, almost once every two days.
17. In 2016 July, I got my testosterone levels checked. I was 21 and I had 370 ng/dl serum levels ( ref 241 -827 for men of all ages) . These are what 80 year old men have. Reading the above lines should give you an idea about my sex drive before PAS. TSH -- 7.17 uIU/ml (ref 035 - 5.5).
18.In July 2017 , I got my blood checked again. I had done some exercising during July. FSH 1.38 mIU/mL (1.4 - 18.10). LH 3.51 mIU/mL (1.5 - 9.3). Prolactin 9.66 (2.1 - 17.7). Calcium 8.3 ( 8.5 - 10.6). Testosterone 535 ng/dL. Even though testo increased by 170 ng/dL, I only had SLIGHT improvements in ED and nothing else.
I got my testo done again on October 15 and it was 561 . No difference in actual health.
I have written mostly about sexual problems and only one line about the other mental effects like anhedonia, but believe me thats just as bad. The ability to not feel happy, not feel good at all is heartbreaking.
The terror of waking up everyday and realizing that things aren't getting better and I have already lost the best years of my life. Making my mother cry every time I talk to her is heartrending.I haven't even told my father because he is finally finding happiness in life and when I tell this to him, he will break.